You don't need Validation From Anyone to be happy.

This is one of the headlines today - 22 years old slams critics as she is about to wed 58 year old

I don't think it is necessary that we begin to explain our choices to anyone. The incredible urge to explain to people around you why you had to make certain choices that makes you happy is really ridiculous.

You don't need any validation from anyone to live your life the best way that you can.

I read of recent the explanation Stephanie gave on why she waited three years to get pregnant and I thought to myself that it was really not necessary. You don't owe anyone anything. People will definitely talk because it is the nature of man to do so. After all the rants, your life is still YOURS alone to live, YOURS alone to account for, YOURS alone to make the most out it.

Quit this irristible urge to always explain to people who do not really care about you, people who only throw stones from afar because they lives are too empty and they seek for every means to justify their miserable lives.

Stowaway Teenager in Lorry's Wheel

This tragic scene shows a desperate young illegal immigrant who nearly died after curling up inside a lorry's spare WHEEL. The determined teenage stowaway hid inside half of a spare wheel in the false bottom of the vehicle. 

Spanish police said the young man could have suffocated because of the lack of air in the cramped space, petrol fumes and the scorching heatwave where temperatures have hit 40 degrees. 

He was found by customs officers at Aduana de Beni-Enzar in Melilla where thousands of immigrants are trying to get across the border.

One boy was recently discovered hidden in a suitcase whilst others have unbelievably climbed into car engines or hidden under lorry axles. The stowaway pictured above was however not alone. Officers found two other immigrants in the same vehicle, both hidden in cramped spaces in a hidden compartment under the floor of the lorry.

They are all of sub-Saharan nationality aged between 18 and 25. All three had to be given first-aid at the scene as officers feared they could die. 

Police said

More Than Your Body

"The best gift a woman would give a man is her virginity. If you do this, he would love you forever and chances of breaking up or cheating on you will be slim"

When I was in my teenage years, I heard a lot on the quote above but I never believed it then and will not believe it now. I was a free spirit, I always asked "what if" and was reminded of how it is, should be and why it should be left that way.

Still here today..still questioning and dismissing lots of things held by a large percentage of persons

I believe Sex isn't a Gift..
Your hymen isn't a gift to any man
Sex is an Art..An Art of Pleasure

Why should

Bloggers Diary - An Unforgettable Night

After much persuasion, I had to attend the vigil to please my mom..Who knows, the reason why I haven't made millions or married a billionaire might be revealed that night. I wouldn't want to miss it for anything.
I wore the longest skirt I owned, donned a shirt and was off to the life-changing vigil of the year..or so i thought.

The service started with praise, not the usual kind of songs praising God but those that seem more like warfare. I asked my neighbour if the pastor was around and was replied in the Negative.. I sighed. I thought there were different kind of praise songs depending on the segment being ushered into. I looked around and realised that my below the knee skirt was a micro mini compared to the larger than life curtains

Hard Truths

Some deaths are not ordained by God. So when you hear your pastor say 'God gives and God takes', just take it as one of those consolatory talks especially when the cause of death is self-inflicted.

When you follow doctrines that forbids you to take blood transfusion that would save your life. Don't say "God takes" cos he would be shaking his head at your brazen show

Justified

‘But you asked me not to leave’ I said in an usually calm voice
‘yes we did because it was for your own….’
‘I listened to you… didn’t i? see where it got me to’
‘we are going to get the best lawyers for you’
‘I don’t need your help’
‘Nana, but….’
‘Sergeant’ I screamed ‘take me back to my cell’
‘George has been arrested for questioning,
‘what!!!’ I shouted in stunned disbelief ‘how, when, why’ I said in a rush
‘Young lady, keep moving’ the officer gave me a little nudge

Seated in my cell with other inmates, I thought about my mum, about George and I suddenly felt tired . I flashed back to the incident that has shaped and defined my life and I felt no tinge of guilt, remorse or shame. I felt peace so divine. It was the best thing I have ever done in the last eight years. I felt so elated, so happy and cared less about the outcome of the trial. I felt so fulfilled. Finally, I have finally done something with my life.

I smiled as I pictured the look in his eyes as he begged me. His expression miffed with shock, disbelief and fear. The surge of power that engulfed me as I sunk the sharp

DIY Avocado Facial Mask

 

You don't have to spend thousands to have a healthy glow on your face. This simply DIY facial mask is very inexpensive and works wonders for different kinds of skin.

What I used
- Avocado
- Egg yolk
- Essential oil

You can also substitute with honey, yoghurt, oatmeal etc.

Try it and you would love your face. Its all natural and healthy.

HOW TO PREPARE AVOCADO MASK
- Get a ripe avocado pear, cut out a sizable chunk and mash with a fork
- Add egg white

DEAR SINGLE LADY, PLEASE DONT APOLOGIZE FOR GODS BLESSING

I was seated in my office one day, and
in the course of discussing with my
colleagues, I told them I was planning
to buy a piece of land and buy a car.
Immediately, both men and women
asked me not to do that. In this Abuja?
No o!
Their main reason was that I was going
to “chase away potential suitors.”

I was shocked that in this