Pregnant Coco Bares it all in this Sheer Outfit - The Thumbs Review

The 36-year-old reality star, who is 7 months pregnant, took to Instagram on Thursday to share a photo of herself in a very revealing sheer black dress.

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Looks very trashy. There is a thin line between looking sexy and looking trashy.

It's a Nay for me

#thumbsdown

I haven't Found the Right Man - Genevieve

Genevieve Nnaji has opened up on why she decided to produce her own movie ‘Road to Yesterday’, ,following her long hiatus .She also revealed though she hasn't ruled out marriage,she is waiting for the right man.. Excerpts from her interview with Chux Ohai of Punch
On why it has taken her a long time to join the growing ranks of new generation movie producers in the country, Genevieve says,

 “I chose to be an actress. Acting was what I had always wanted to do. I don’t think that I ever imagined myself producing a film. I love acting. If the Nigerian movie industry was as stable as it should be, I probably would have been on the set of a movie every day of my life and not be bothered about what goes on behind the camera. So it is a matter of choice and preference.”

On marriage ..

 Genevieve to choose a life partner and finally walk down the aisle, marriage does not seem to be in her agenda yet. Asked when she would finally take the plunge, the actress replies that contrary to speculations, she has not ruled out marriage. But that she would make up her mind as soon as she meets the right person

"I haven’t found the right man yet. When he comes, I’ll get married,” she says

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Looking forward to the day journalists and the society at large would quit throwing the "marriage jibe" on every successful lady. It's feels like measuring her worth or equating her success on the platform of marriage. 

Marriage does not and will never define anyone. As long as she is making impact, touching lives and a big inspiration to her world, then she rocks big time.

When marriage comes, it will be a bonus to her and not the entirety of her life.

Star Magazine shades the Kardashians,calls them 'Destroyers of Men'

This is way below the belt. Everyone should be responsible for their choices.

Lamar came from a disturbed background

Scott has been having issues with drug addiction

Kanyes carer isn't in tatters

Caitlyn issues has been way back before he married Kris.

Accusing these wonderful ladies of choices these adults make is making them look like babies who are helpless.

New Series - Wonders shall never end

I will be starting a new series on my blog which shall be called 'wonders shall never end'. it is going to be a compilation of absurdities, strange stories, mysteries, shocking tales that will leave us all speechless. The stories will be stranger than fiction but they will be 100% real as they would be gotten from individuals it affected firsthand.

Today, i will be writing the story of a tragic wedding...

For them, it was love

Lessons From Linda Ikeji

According to reports, she just got a house at banana Island and all hell has been let loose since then. People whose are obviously jobless are trying so hard to dismiss the report, some are throwing the marriage angle at her, while others are busy throwing different shades at her..

While they do all these, Cash is rolling into her account and she is living the life of her dream.

Have we all observed a trend? When someone becomes successful in a chosen career 

Path, people tend to find ways to question, dismiss, throw negative criticism and jibes, talk about their personal life, religious affiliation/background, relationship , lifestyle ...all in a bid to bring them down for just no apparent reason.

While some people may frown at her news gathering techniques, plagiarism issues (which I believe she has gotten a hold on) and others , I believe that despite all these short comings, there are lessons to be learnt from Linda Ikeji

- whatever you honestly enjoy doing, as long as it doesn't constitute a nuisance to others , as long as it is legal, keep doing it against all hatred or disregard. Someday you will be rewarded consciously or unconsciously 

- there will always be setbacks and days you will feel like giving up...but it shouldn't be an option anyways. Linda blogged for 7 years before she got her needed break

- Walking an unknown road need lots of courage and perseverance. When she started blogging, it was new to Nigerians and many didn't understand the blogosphere world. It never stopped her from walking through uncharted road. She began a new dawn and popularized blogging in Nigeria or should I say Africa. Now everyone wants to blog, everyone wants to be rich and successful like Linda but no one wants to pay the price in tears and hardwork.

- Failure at an attempted endeavor does not make you a total waste of human space. Remember she was a failed model before she ventured into blogging. Her failure didn't deter her from trying something entirely different and making a name out of it.

- When your hardwork finally begins to pay for off, expect big stones to be hurled at you from people. They will pelt you with hurtful words, blackmail, threaten, criticize negatively.. Success comes with a price. For you to stay up there, you have to develop a thick skin and be as stubborn as the mule; the mule is a stubborn, self centered animal who is only concerned with his own interest. Don't try to prove yourself to a small fry.

Don't waste your time trying to prove yourself to 'people' who constantly attempt undermine your efforts. Instead focus your eyes on climbing to the top and gaining the support of people that matter who can help you on your journey as you rise.

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People will ask you silly questions, try to water down your efforts, try to make you feel you have wasted time and efforts on something you believe so much in.

Such questions come from persons who are jealous. Jobless with low or little self esteem, seeking to pull you down for cheap popularity or because they failed to achieve the same level of such as you.

Be unstoppable 

Remember that mockery and criticism cannot stop an idea or dream that will succeed. Your job is to ignore those people and do what you have to do by ruthlessly pursuing your goals.

 As Baltasa quoted "Be content to act and leave others to talking...."

Good Morning

I am back and better

For almost a month now, I have been off the radar. I didn't have any will power to put up a post on my blog or update my status in any of my social media platform.  I was sick, depressed and detached from reality. Each new day began with an unprecedented doom hanging around me and i couldn't comprehend what was happening to me.

October 1st, I added a new age to my year on earth. It was supposed to be a day of celebration for but I struggled to make it through the day with the meagre strength I had. 

I am back now. 

I am stronger now and ready to face the blogosphere world. The inner storm in me has quelled down and will never raise to ugly head.

Happy birthday to me

Happy birthday to Nigeria

Bloggers Diary - Kiss of Life!!

I hate boastful people...Ok! Hate is too strong a word to use. The words of boastful people don't hold water to me.

Let me find out or discover that great talent or gifts of yours myself. If you so decide to boast about it, you Berra live up to your expectations or you shall forever remain in my black book of losers.

That how yours truly hit it off with a man in one meeting. The connection was so strong that we became friends afterwards. We would chat and make calls almost round the clock. Infact, we were stuck on each other.

He would tell me how a bad kisser he was... Oh Vivien, I would kiss you for hours and hours without stop. those who had kissed my lips would attest to it, I am not trying to boast Vivien, but be prepared for my kiss cause it gonna make your feet

Blog Visitor Needs Help. I was Raped! Should I tell?

The quarrel with Mark was beginning to have it toll on me as I was getting depressed by the day. He wouldn't answer nor return my calls, wouldn't reply my chats and sms. I have sent emissaries to beg him but he remained unmoved and unshaken.. I know he would eventually turn around but I didn't know how long it will take.

It was a beautiful Saturday morning..I laid on my bed, inserted a copy of the new film I got "ADDICTED" into my laptop and relaxed to enjoy. One hour into the movie, I heard a loud bang on my door which shattered the door from its hinges. I turned around and saw two masked men facing me with Guns pointed at me.

I was stark naked on my bed and quickly rushed to cover myself with the duvet but it was already too late as I noticed an erection in one of them.

He approached me menacingly, pointed the gun to my head while he freed his penis from his pants. He had his way into me and raped me as his partner packed the valuables I had in my room.

I heard myself moan as I was defiled. I felt dirty but couldn't help myself as I felt his manhood stretch every breadth of my vagina. I guess he noticed that I was responding and reduced his grasp on me before he climaxed.

After the incidence, my boyfriend ran to my apartment..The police also came and we were told to write our statements.

I noted down all was taken from me but didn't mention the fact that I was raped. How could I say I was when I enjoyed the very act..The scenes from the movie raised my hormones at that time before the robbers struck.

Now I'm stuck with guilt, filth, tears and a nagging conscience.

Its two weeks gone and I need to tell my man what transpired to regain my sanity.

What should I do? I'm dying inside