Thursday, 16 January 2014

Most Embarassing Moment - By a blog visitor

I had a boy friend in the university like every other girl had and i was also a virgin. I started dating my boyfriend in my second year and all was going smooth. I had rented my own apartment after spending my first year with my uncle and his wife who was a lecturer in the university. My cousin also lived with my uncle and was reading the same course with me but she was a class ahead of me.

My boyfriend decided to visit me on that fateful day and we both decided that we were going to give sex a try. I closed my door thinking

Tuesday, 24 December 2013

SECOND CHANCES

I had just returned from burying my
father. His death irked me so much for he
died just when things started turning
around for good. I had returned back to
my base in Jos where I plied my trade as
a businessman. Since we buried my old
man in the last week of November, I had
no plans of returning again for Christmas.
I agreed to go first while my wife and four
months baby boy will join me later in two
weeks time. I had some business deals
waiting to be wrapped up and my wife as
the

REMINISCENCE

Awere was the only woman who truly got
me. I guess if there was one person I
couldn't lie to, it was her. She saw
through me like a transparent glass filled
with clean water. We met in the
unlikeliest of places and manner! It was
at a Heart to Heart Centre where I went
to do HIV test; my mother had just given
me an ultimatum to provide proof that I
was clean and had specifically referred to
Aunt Esther a kickass friend of hers who
worked at the centre! The order was
explicit get a proof or get out; Aunt
Esther must endorse physically by saying
she saw me and then with her signature
plus maiden name on the test result
sheet. My game was clearly up, I had no
other option than to go do the damn test!
Of course you need not guess, I was
scared to

Thursday, 28 November 2013

STOLEN INNOCENCE - STILL SHATTERED

I rushed back home that fateful tuesday
morning as I forgot a file at home. The
traffic was bad as I found my way back
home. I decided to park my car outside to
make things easier and faster for me as I
was just going to pick the forgotten file and
head back to the office. Little did I know
that parking my car outside was my saving
grace, if I had honked for the gate to be
opened for me to park, I may have never
found out, it may have continued
unnoticed for a long time.

I guess the rattling of my keys while
opening the door alerted him. I saw my
little girl, my sweet beautiful little girl of
four rounding the corner of his room,
rumpled and disheveled, guilt and
confusion written all over her face.
Where is Adams I asked and she pointed
to the direction of his room, the room of
my house boy
I rushed into his room and found him
arranging an already arranged room. I
looked at him, then to my girl, him again
and to my girl. At that instance, I placed
one and one together and I collapsed on
the floor as it dawned on me, tears pouring
down my face. I was so shattered, I
couldn't believe my houseboy has been

Tuesday, 26 November 2013

DONT GIVE UP

"One day I
decided to quit. I quit my job, my
relationship, my spirituality. I wanted to
quit my life. I went to the woods to have
one last talk with God.“God”, I said. “Can
you give me one good reason not to
quit?”His answer surprised me.“Look
around”, He said. “Do you see the fern and
the bamboo?”“Yes”, I replied.“When I
planted the fern and the bamboo seeds, I
took very good care of them. I gave them
light. I gave them water. The fern quickly
grew from the earth. Its brilliant green
covered the floor. Yet nothing came from
the bamboo seed. But I did not quit on
the

Monday, 25 November 2013

I MARRIED A LION.

Submitted by oladimeji josiah on Fri,
04/19/2013 - 16:34

Most often than not, the trouble most
people find themselves in are brought on
them by their own handwork, but when
the problem take over their lives and
swallows them up, others pity them and
cry foul to God, asking why God would
allow such terrible things happen, when in
true sense it's not the fault of the creator
but an outright fault of the creation, be it
male or female.

I live a very busy life, because of the kind
of work i do and my position in the
company i work with, but however busy i
am, my work ends in the office, i never let
my office work spill over to the house,
despite this my hands are always full when
i am at home because of the handful of
activities i have to grapple with

Saturday, 5 October 2013

Blogger Diary - Most Uncomfortable Journey

I have pondered long before deciding to share my diary sessions on my blog and decide to give it a shot. I promise to be truthful and open as much as i can.  Enjoy


I left the house hurriedly at about 4:00pm as i didn't want to get to Otta late. I had promised my fiance that i would be coming over to the family house to see his people and i was not about to break that promise. My fiance had already called pleading i leave the house on time because of the usual traffic around Abulegba. I got to Oshodi and decide to follow the coastal bus because it was much cheaper than the smaller ones. As i boarded the bus, i noticed that most of the comfortable positions had been occupied and i didn't want to go to the back. Most Lagosians dont like that though. I looked around and decided to pitch my tent beside one 'aboki". the look he gave me was so uncomfortable

Tuesday, 1 October 2013

We are at fault too. HAPPY INDEPENDENCE - NIGERIA

To you all insulting Jonathan nd blaming the
past administration for the failure of the
country, this is for you;

If you have ever swindled anyone, u are the
problem of Nigeria

If you have ever cheated ur way through
school, then you are the problem of Nigeria

If you have ever inflated the price of a
project or anything for ur own selfish
reasons, then you are the problem and
headache of Nigeria

If you have ever carelessly tossed dirt on our
roads with less care, then dont compare
our country to the western ones because
you are the problem of this country

If you have ever.... if you have ever ....... I
could go on and on.

Bottom line, Charity and Greatness of this
Country starts from us.

HAPPY INDEPENDENCE