Ways in Which Porn Mislead Women About Sex

I have watched a couple of
pornographic films where perfectly
shaped, beautiful hairless women
which fantastic acrobatic positions that
are sometimes unreasonable are
penetrated by equally toned men with
six packs and perfect body structure.

Anyone who has watched a couple of
porn movie may come up with
particular ideas on how sex should be
and most times expect same acrobatic
moves done by the actors.

These are some of the ways porn
mislead women

- Feeling of imperfections : Most
women would feel a blow on their self
esteem when "perfect women" with
"Perfect bodies" enjoying "perfect sex"
are portrayed by

Independent and Feminine

So many ladies want to be identified as
being independent. The fact that you
can do things on your own, in your own
terms whenever you wish gives you a
sense of power, of satisfaction, of
control, of influence.

It makes you feel good. You can spend
your money the way you want, make
your own decisions, travel at will and
enjoy the good things of life without
feeling weighted down or accountable
to anyone.
The sense of being totally Independent
is

ESSENCE OF A WOMAN

Women are amazingly super beings; they
are powerful, passionate and extremely
magnetic. Born to lead, rule and
orchestrate. They are also resourceful,
active, dynamic and prepared to go any
length to fight for a cause close to their heart.

A woman’s true essence is not measured
by what she looks like; she does not think
less of herself because she is a total
package. She glories in the completeness
of her feminine nature…whether tall or
short, fair or dark, slim or fat; she
appreciates her femininity

SURVIVING AT HER MERCY

The fiery eyed man came home in frenzy of fury searching frantically for his punching bag. The target, his frightened wife held her breath as she hid under the bed praying that their four year old son whose lips know no lie will not give her away. But that was not to be, for in matters of seconds the unwavering honesty of their clueless son fished her out from under the bed. As he dragged her by the hair, the piece of cloth she tied fell off leaving her naked, but her oppressor was unmoved and insistent, he began to pound her like local akuebilisi drum. Having endured these routines of horror for years the woman has grown used to it, she lay still like a real sand bag bereft of will to fight back. When he was done he stormed out relieved. Down to Original Mama’s joint he landed, his mouth filled with tales and his enticer’s ears eager as hell to hear. He poured it out like the surge of a mighty flood; branding himself a hero for wrecking his own ship. Original Mama has been in easy virtue business for ages, like a professional spin-master she doused his ego, saturating him with accolades so elusive. He felt relaxed and warmed up to her exhausted bossom. The old hag welcomed him warmly to her rusty murky well of expired waters. Alas! He gasped what else do I live for? So quietly he emptied his whole pocket to her, like a faithful steward he rendered an immaculate account, offering to do even better the next day. Once more the old hag

VOICES AGAIST RAPE AND SEXUAL MOLESTATION

Nneoma ran to welcome his uncle and as usual he bought goodies for her. Biscuits, sweet and her favorite - ice cream. She rushed to show show her mom what Uncle Ade bought for her. She shared her goodies with her smaller siblings and rushed back to Uncle Ade room to watch cartoon. Uncle Ade always put on his Generator when he comes back from office by 5 and Nneoma uses that opportunity to watch her favorite cartoon.

"Uncle Ade, why didnt you put on your generator" ... Nneoma asked with a sad face

"I dont have fuel Nne, will get it at night"..... Uncle Ade answered

"Okay Uncle, let me go and play with my brothers"

"Nne, he called tenderly, come and sit on my laps, i want to show you something"

Nneoma sat on Uncle Ade laps and suddenly felt his uncle hands on her laps

"Do you know you are beautiful girl" he asked... Nneoma nodded in affirmation

"For a beautiful and obedient girl like you, i am gonna buy you a big plate of ice cream tomorrow".. he said

'Really!!! Nneoma beamed excitedly, are you gonna buy ice-cream for me"

"Yes i will..only if you remain the good girl that you are and don't tell your mom anything"... he smiled at her

"Okay" Nneoma whispered "But what don't you want me to tell mummy"

"This" He said as he lowered his lips on Nneoma's

Nneoma struggled with her breath as Uncle Ade held on tightly to her. He kissed her brutally and pushed his hands down to her privates. Nneoma whimpered, but he held her tightly, shutting her lips with his as his finger found her way to her

Most Embarassing Moment - By a blog visitor

I had a boy friend in the university like every other girl had and i was also a virgin. I started dating my boyfriend in my second year and all was going smooth. I had rented my own apartment after spending my first year with my uncle and his wife who was a lecturer in the university. My cousin also lived with my uncle and was reading the same course with me but she was a class ahead of me.

My boyfriend decided to visit me on that fateful day and we both decided that we were going to give sex a try. I closed my door thinking

SECOND CHANCES

I had just returned from burying my
father. His death irked me so much for he
died just when things started turning
around for good. I had returned back to
my base in Jos where I plied my trade as
a businessman. Since we buried my old
man in the last week of November, I had
no plans of returning again for Christmas.
I agreed to go first while my wife and four
months baby boy will join me later in two
weeks time. I had some business deals
waiting to be wrapped up and my wife as
the

REMINISCENCE

Awere was the only woman who truly got
me. I guess if there was one person I
couldn't lie to, it was her. She saw
through me like a transparent glass filled
with clean water. We met in the
unlikeliest of places and manner! It was
at a Heart to Heart Centre where I went
to do HIV test; my mother had just given
me an ultimatum to provide proof that I
was clean and had specifically referred to
Aunt Esther a kickass friend of hers who
worked at the centre! The order was
explicit get a proof or get out; Aunt
Esther must endorse physically by saying
she saw me and then with her signature
plus maiden name on the test result
sheet. My game was clearly up, I had no
other option than to go do the damn test!
Of course you need not guess, I was
scared to