Bloggers Diary - Kiss of Life!!

I hate boastful people...Ok! Hate is too strong a word to use. The words of boastful people don't hold water to me.

Let me find out or discover that great talent or gifts of yours myself. If you so decide to boast about it, you Berra live up to your expectations or you shall forever remain in my black book of losers.

That how yours truly hit it off with a man in one meeting. The connection was so strong that we became friends afterwards. We would chat and make calls almost round the clock. Infact, we were stuck on each other.

He would tell me how a bad kisser he was... Oh Vivien, I would kiss you for hours and hours without stop. those who had kissed my lips would attest to it, I am not trying to boast Vivien, but be prepared for my kiss cause it gonna make your feet

Blog Visitor Needs Help. I was Raped! Should I tell?

The quarrel with Mark was beginning to have it toll on me as I was getting depressed by the day. He wouldn't answer nor return my calls, wouldn't reply my chats and sms. I have sent emissaries to beg him but he remained unmoved and unshaken.. I know he would eventually turn around but I didn't know how long it will take.

It was a beautiful Saturday morning..I laid on my bed, inserted a copy of the new film I got "ADDICTED" into my laptop and relaxed to enjoy. One hour into the movie, I heard a loud bang on my door which shattered the door from its hinges. I turned around and saw two masked men facing me with Guns pointed at me.

I was stark naked on my bed and quickly rushed to cover myself with the duvet but it was already too late as I noticed an erection in one of them.

He approached me menacingly, pointed the gun to my head while he freed his penis from his pants. He had his way into me and raped me as his partner packed the valuables I had in my room.

I heard myself moan as I was defiled. I felt dirty but couldn't help myself as I felt his manhood stretch every breadth of my vagina. I guess he noticed that I was responding and reduced his grasp on me before he climaxed.

After the incidence, my boyfriend ran to my apartment..The police also came and we were told to write our statements.

I noted down all was taken from me but didn't mention the fact that I was raped. How could I say I was when I enjoyed the very act..The scenes from the movie raised my hormones at that time before the robbers struck.

Now I'm stuck with guilt, filth, tears and a nagging conscience.

Its two weeks gone and I need to tell my man what transpired to regain my sanity.

What should I do? I'm dying inside

When Nature Meets Art.. Can you spot the Models?

Impressive images by photographer Tschiponnique Skupin show naked models perfectly camouflaged in the backgrounds where the photos were taken .They were taken in Lower Saxony, Germany last month for a project called 'Nature Art'. You'll have to look closely to see these women

Refugees served with Shovel at IDP camp in Maiduguri

Photos have emerged of a shovel being used to serve food to Boko haram refugees at an IDP camp in Maiduguri,Borno State..

Very Sad!!!!

Freda and the Counselor

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I walked into the massive building that housed the counselor I wanted to see that Friday morning. My apprehension and fear making me miss several steps as I walked down the long corridor in search of her name tag on the door. After several pleas from Teema, I decided to try out a session with the much talked about counselor. I just hope she would be everything and more Teema had boasted of or she would definitely have her head on a spike.

A little rap on the door and i was invited into the office by the voice within.

‘’Good morning Mrs walker”  the counselor said with a smile beaming across her face

‘Good Morning Ms Ruth, errrm .. I..

‘Just feel comfortable Mrs Walker, I could get you a cup of coffee or  tea if you don’t mind’

‘Please call me Freda. I wouldn’t mind a cup of coffee. Thank You’

‘ok Freda.. if you don’t mind, we can start now’

‘oh! .. alright’ I said feeling very tensed and nervous

You can say all you want to without fear of disclosure. It has been the practice to keep sessions very confidential and…

‘Teema said you can be very discreet that was  what  why I decided to book an appointment after several pleas

‘Ok..good.. Let’s begin”

‘before I start, I just want you to know that I didn’t want to be here. I just had to come because my friend wanted me to. I feel very embarrassed talking about this but I will try my possible best

‘alright’

‘errrrm, I enjoy sex with my husband’

‘I don’t get you, you should enjoy sex with your husband’ the counselor looked at me with a confused face

‘I mean I enjoy sex with my husband after he has beaten me up. I enjoy sex after the pains’

‘go on’

‘he ties me up and works his way through my defenses till  am helpless and vulnerable to my needs. The sex is just damn good…way too good for my broken body to say No’ I look at the counselor and she gave me a nod to  go ahead

‘I think that’s all..  I said very faintly while casting my gaze on the floor

‘it is very okay for you to withhold some vital information but with time, you will have to speak freely as you have nothing to fear. I want you to start from the very beginning..when the abuse started, the first few years of your relationship, a little about his childhood and yours

‘ok

THE GENESIS

I met him during my thanksgiving after I successfully concluded my NYSC in the North. He walked up to me during the close of service, extended his hands and told me congratulations with the cutest smile spread across his face. I smiled back as I extended my hand in acknowledgment. I would say I was smitten on the spot. One meeting after the next and the rest became history.

‘any sign of violence during the relationship’ the counselor cut in

Yes, he always had a streak of violence in him but always assured me he would work on his anger issues. he would flare up on waitresses, curse out attendants if they didn’t respond in a particular way that he defined appropraite.

‘did he ever get physical with you’

‘yes he did..one slap too many for not doing things the exact way he wanted me to.. he would rebuke me with harsh words in front of friends and family

‘any form of intimacy after that’

‘yes’I said weakly..  he would buy me gifts and make love to me so sweetly while assuring me that he would never hit me again.

‘any form of weird sexual activities between you two’

‘yes, he would suggest we try one or two his fantasies as he would refer the as. Any form of resistance from me would result in anger and would bend to his requests so soothe his annoyance’

‘what kind of fantasies’

‘he would tie me up with ropes, some times he would gag me and lash me with his belt. Then he would kiss every part of me so tenderly ..the pains forgotten and then make love to me so tender. It was always a different shade of explosive episodes days we make out after some form of argument, disagreement or physical abuse’

‘why did you go ahead with the marriage’

‘the sex was damn good, I was hooked. Besides, I couldn’t walk away from the relationship.  Both families were neck deep into the intending union. We struck a perfect example of a beautiful couple . I couldn’t bear the shame of walking out of the relationship’

‘when did you record the first episode of abuse after you got married’

‘on our wedding night. He wanted sex, I didn’t because I was very tired from the whole ceremony. He hit me hard across the face, tied me up and made love to me..

‘did you…

‘yes I did enjoy it’ I answered before she could finish her question

I glanced at my phone and discovered that time was far spent. I rose up and declared my intention to leave. I promised to call her later to fix another appointment, but deep down I knew it was never going to happen. I just had to please Teema before she bores me with her incessant nagging.

….to be continued

 

 

 

 

 

 

Mother and Child Obsessed by Katie Price spends $56,000 in Surgery to look like her

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Georgina Clarke, 38, Kayla Morris, 20, wanted bigger boobs, bums and lips and say splashing cash on transforming themselves into their icon brought them closer together.

The pair funded

Many are Mad, Few are Roaming....

We all love Denrele for his creativity and spontaneity. He has brought his exceptionally to the entertainment scene with his uniqueness and costumes that stands out among the crowd. His fashion ranges from high stiletto heels, to crazy hair dos and mind boggling attires that makes you wanna puke sometimes.

His dressing above is one of those that makes you wonder and screeeaaaam "WTF"!!!!

I can't differentiate him from patients on Yama left though

THUMBS DOWN👎👎👎👎👎👎👎👎

Do you fit into their Expectation and Description?

We all grew up in a setting where certain
expectations are placed on us. We are expected to
act, speak, laugh.. in a particular way. We are
expected to go to school, come out with good
grades, work in a multinational company and earn
fat salaries every month...

We are already placed on a regimented route even
before we see it. Some are forced to take a
particular career route because they want to fit into
expectations of their parents. Perhaps your dad
thinks