Wednesday, 26 August 2015

Many are Mad, Few are Roaming....



We all love Denrele for his creativity and spontaneity. He has brought his exceptionally to the entertainment scene with his uniqueness and costumes that stands out among the crowd. His fashion ranges from high stiletto heels, to crazy hair dos and mind boggling attires that makes you wanna puke sometimes.

His dressing above is one of those that makes you wonder and screeeaaaam "WTF"!!!!

I can't differentiate him from patients on Yama left though

THUMBS DOWN👎👎👎👎👎👎👎👎

Do you fit into their Expectation and Description?

We all grew up in a setting where certain
expectations are placed on us. We are expected to
act, speak, laugh.. in a particular way. We are
expected to go to school, come out with good
grades, work in a multinational company and earn
fat salaries every month...

We are already placed on a regimented route even
before we see it. Some are forced to take a
particular career route because they want to fit into
expectations of their parents. Perhaps your dad
thinks

You are nothing Without a Mans name... Ladies!


We live in a society that tells a woman

" You are nothing if you aren't married"
"Get all the degrees you want, climb to the highest ladder of your career, be a name to be reckoned with in the world!!! You are absolutely Nothing, if you have no Mans name

Monday, 24 August 2015

Don't take in the baggage... You are royalty!!!!

You have loved him with all your heart
You have put his happiness before yours
You have given him all of you
You have bared your soul to him..Your weaknesses and vulnerability
You have surrendered your body without restraints...hesitation
You have been to the edge of hell and back ... but you endured
Cos you Loved

And then it happens.. I don't Love you anymore he says 

Your world suddenly turns bleak, it comes crashing down. The sun suddenly stopped shining and the moon swallowed up in darkness.
You cry when you think of sacrifices, the pains, Humiliation, the dreams unfulfilled.

You stick to him like a leech and scream murder if he leaves you. You harrass his new found love with calls and got physical when opportunity arises. You swear you will make his life miserable if he ever leaves you and threaten with death.

Wait a second!!!

I dont think you realise who you are..

You are a Queen, not a maid

You are an awesome creation.. A perfection in the eyes of God

You are beautifully and wonderfully made

You are called forth to show his Excellence.


Royalties don't whine
Royalties don't belittle themselves
Royalties don't act desperate
Royalties have class 
Royalties begets Royalties

Your King will come
One beffiting
One Loving
Your flaws with be his
And his yours
He will crown your days with loving kindness and your nights with ecstasy.

Its time to let go.. LET GO
Its not the easiest thing to do, but its the best for you
Until you see your worth, other will term you worthless
Until you realise how beautiful and priceless you are, you remain that gold covered in shit and no one will see your real Value...

You deserve the Best..

Good morning

Sunday, 23 August 2015

Karrauche wears $3000 boots Chris bought for her. Would you do same?



This picture of K. Tran got me really smiling. Girl is rocking life and living it to the fullest. Break up or nor, she isn't letting it weigh her down or affect her fun side.

While some will advise doing away with whatever might remind you of the hurt of the past, I say letting go cannot be permanant if you don't get your mind to accept reality. You might do away with possessions that remind you of the past but find it hard letting go because your heart has been consumed with so much hate and unforgiveness.

What would you do with the possessions given to you after break up?

Would you return it, do away with it or would you rock it like K. tran?

Christina Milan Flaunts "hot" body in almost Nothing.

I came across some pictures of Christina Milan on a date with rapper boyfriend lil Wayne. Dressed in a brasserie and a tiny short 

While some might drool on the sexiness of the attire, all I see is a very inappropriate dressing for a date with a man who is fully clad. Christina has a banging body and nice physique but this whole ensemble is a fashion faux. Who dresses this way for a date? This would have been appropriate for a time out in the beach.

This is super trashy coming from the sweet girl we used to know.

THUMBS DOWN

Thursday, 20 August 2015

Never Sell yourself Short

When you find yourself trapped between what moves you and what society tells you is right for you, always travel the route that makes you feel alive – unless you want everyone to be happy, except you.  

No matter where life takes you, big
cities or small towns, you will inevitably come across others who think they know what’s best for you – people who think they’re better than you – people who think happiness, success and beauty mean the same things to everyone.

They’ll try to measure your worth based on what you have, instead of who you are. But you know better than that – material things don’t matter. Don’t chase the money. Catch up to the ideas and activities that make you come alive. Go
for the things of greater value – the things money can’t buy. What matters is having strength of character, an honest heart,
and a sense of self-worth. If you’re lucky enough to have any of these things, never sell them. 

Never sell yourself short.

Know Your Worth Ladies

There is this lady friend of mine who is always on my neck about when I would get married. She would ask to know who I was with at the moment and how serious the relationship was.

She would advice me not to let him know certain aspect of my life not because it was too early to divulge such information but it has the tendency of driving prospective bobo away.

I have seen ladies shrinking their life achievements, hiding their offspring, reducing their age, living way below standard cause they do not want to offend or scare the man looking their way.

In as much as God has blessed you or you have made some mistakes in your past. You do not have to apologize for it. You dont apologize for having a nice job and good pay cause you worked for it. You don't have to suffer a 
man with loads of esteem problem to live.

A man who is really a man will know that your success is his success. A real man will know that your past do not really define you. He would lift his head high because he knows the worth of his woman above rubies.  He is not intimidated by her her achievements and goals..rather he would help her highest potential. 

You don't have to lie to make a man stay
You do not have to sell yourself cheap
You dont have to diminish or shrink your worth cause you want him to stay
If he is so much into a wifey material ..Seek for a 'husbandly' material too. 
Dont jump into the wagon because you have to.

Be true to yourself. A man who loves you, a man deserving will love you for you and you will love him for him.

Wear your extra accessories with pride..if he wont have you with them, he can jump into the lagoon.