Monday 18 August 2014

Ways in Which Porn Mislead Women About Sex

I have watched a couple of
pornographic films where perfectly
shaped, beautiful hairless women
which fantastic acrobatic positions that
are sometimes unreasonable are
penetrated by equally toned men with
six packs and perfect body structure.

Anyone who has watched a couple of
porn movie may come up with
particular ideas on how sex should be
and most times expect same acrobatic
moves done by the actors.

These are some of the ways porn
mislead women

- Feeling of imperfections : Most
women would feel a blow on their self
esteem when "perfect women" with
"Perfect bodies" enjoying "perfect sex"
are portrayed by
these actors. Some
might begin to feel ashamed appearing
naked before their partners

- She has to do everything, acrobatic
twist and turns before sex can be
enjoyed: Even when the position
seems so uncomfortable, girls in porn
movies moan even when they are not
inclined to. Or having to swallow sperm
even if it makes u wanna puke. It is so
very unhealthy

- Men are willing, always ready and
aggressive so you have to give the
same measure to him.

- That men dont like women with hair
down below ...Im very sure some men
Love their women having thick sambisa
forests.

- Orgasms are almost effortless: The
truth is that there are women who find
it difficult reaching orgasm with their
partner but with d myraid of films
showing these ladies squirting so fast
and acting all demon possessed, it will
be very dissapointing for a lady if she
didn't experience that or have never
experienced orgasm. Not all sexual
encounter would lead to
orgasm..Some will take you to the
mountain top, some will land you at
the plateau.

- Sex and "sexy" is Purely Physical: I
believe sex is more emotional than
physical for women and the more
reason why we want to do set the
atmosphere right before the actual act.
It barely or never happens in porn
movies. Sex is too physical, too plastic,
too perfect and it never happen in real
life situations.
It gives a feeling of clumsiness when
not in sync with the characters seen in
movies. It makes one feel that they
could never fit in, dysphoric about
their body and who they are.
Every lady should feel sexy in their
own skin. Firm breast, toned and
flawless skin do not equal a beautiful
and "sexy" body. Knowing how to
perform a strip tease doesn't amount
to "sexiness" too. Being comfortable in
your own skin is the highest definition
of being "sexy"

- Men will always last Looooooog in
bed: That's another lie and its a pity
that some ladies are already deluded
to believing this. It freaks me out to
see men going on for sooooo long.
Does it really happen all the time? No.
You start questioning the physical
health of your man when he falls short
of expectations.

Ok, im gonna stop here for now. Porn
is really destructive, it fuses
abnormalities, lies, deceit, pretense,
exaggerated display into something
created to be beautiful, cherished and
enjoyed.

9 comments:

  1. Nice read. First time being here and im impressed

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  2. Vivien, you dont update regularly. When would you finish The Philanderer story

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  3. Thanks for this timely article.Porn is really destructive. I used to be a chronic masturbator and porn was also a part of the things i was addicted to. It took the grace of God and my very understanding girlfriend to bring me out of destruction. Today, i tell anyone who cares to listen how destructive porn is. Married couples in my opininon shouldnt see it too

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  4. So Sorry Anon 9:48...Would do so very soon

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  5. 9ice one vivien..visit ma entertainment blog Alexlatest.blogspot.com...I'm impressed

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  6. It meant for us that can communicate in Sex language not for those who don,t talk about Sex for culture and religious reason,.

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    1. Thanks Keisha, your comment means a lot to me

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