Independent and Feminine

So many ladies want to be identified as
being independent. The fact that you
can do things on your own, in your own
terms whenever you wish gives you a
sense of power, of satisfaction, of
control, of influence.

It makes you feel good. You can spend
your money the way you want, make
your own decisions, travel at will and
enjoy the good things of life without
feeling weighted down or accountable
to anyone.
The sense of being totally Independent
is
beautiful. You live your life on your
own terms and feel pretty satisfied
with it.

The big problem starts when you bring
your independence nature into your
relationship. Why should there a
relationship in the first place when the
man in your life feels unwanted,
disposable, irrelevant....

In as much as you love doing your own
things your own way, give the man in
your life the pleasure of doing them.
Even if he does not get to the
perfection in which you probably
would, it gives his ego a boost. He
glories in the fact that he has done
something meaningful and beautiful for
his woman.

Sometimes we are the architect of our
misfortune. In the bid to portray
independence, we lose the very
essence of our feminity. No man wants
a woman who would make him feel
less a man or a puppy who sits and
waits for his masters bidding.

Let loose and enjoy being courted and
pampered. Let down the guard and
high walls you have built overtime
when you meet that man who wants to
treat you like a real woman.

You can be a strong Independent
woman and Feminine.