Tuesday 16 December 2014

Hard Truths

Some deaths are not ordained by God. So when you hear your pastor say 'God gives and God takes', just take it as one of those consolatory talks especially when the cause of death is self-inflicted.
When you follow doctrines that forbids you to take blood transfusion that would save your life. Don't say "God takes" cos he would be shaking his head at your brazen show

Justified



‘But you asked me not to leave’ I said in an usually calm voice
‘yes we did because it was for your own….’
‘I listened to you… didn’t i? see where it got me to’
‘we are going to get the best lawyers for you’
‘I don’t need your help’
‘Nana, but….’
‘Sergeant’ I screamed ‘take me back to my cell’
‘George has been arrested for questioning,
‘what!!!’ I shouted in stunned disbelief ‘how, when, why’ I said in a rush
‘Young lady, keep moving’ the officer gave me a little nudge

Seated in my cell with other inmates, I thought about my mum, about George and I suddenly felt tired . I flashed back to the incident that has shaped and defined my life and I felt no tinge of guilt, remorse or shame. I felt peace so divine. It was the best thing I have ever done in the last eight years. I felt so elated, so happy and cared less about the outcome of the trial. I felt so fulfilled. Finally, I have finally done something with my life.


I smiled as I pictured the look in his eyes as he begged me. His expression miffed with shock, disbelief and fear. The surge of power that engulfed me as I sunk the sharp

Thursday 27 November 2014

DIY Avocado Facial Mask

 



You don't have to spend thousands to have a healthy glow on your face. This simply DIY facial mask is very inexpensive and works wonders for different kinds of skin.

What I used
- Avocado
- Egg yolk
- Essential oil

You can also substitute with honey, yoghurt, oatmeal etc.

Try it and you would love your face. Its all natural and healthy.

HOW TO PREPARE AVOCADO MASK
- Get a ripe avocado pear, cut out a sizable chunk and mash with a fork
- Add egg white

Sunday 5 October 2014

DEAR SINGLE LADY, PLEASE DONT APOLOGIZE FOR GODS BLESSING

I was seated in my office one day, and
in the course of discussing with my
colleagues, I told them I was planning
to buy a piece of land and buy a car.
Immediately, both men and women
asked me not to do that. In this Abuja?
No o!
Their main reason was that I was going
to “chase away potential suitors.”

I was shocked that in this

Wednesday 10 September 2014

The Stranger

She watched from a distance as the
couple made their way to the suya
stand. it was obvious they were so
much in love and lost in their
presence. They held hands, kissed,
jumped around exitedly like kids. They kissed every now and then with a sharp squeal from her piercing the ambience of the beach. He chased her, she ran ...He caught her lighted her up and gave her a deep kissss...Dang!!!
she wasn't up for this today.

She arose languidly from where she
was seated and walked towards the
shore of the beach. She laid on the
sand letting the cool salty water splash over her bare butt. She inhaled deeply and she settled in a more comfortable position and let her mind drift away.

She found herself by the beach with
the man of her dreams( tall, dark,
muscular and incredibly sexy eyes)
naked ..entangled

The waves cascading their naked
bodies. Oblivious to the cares of d
world .... She and Him

Their screams and moans drowne byroars of the ocean waves.

Forming a perfect harmony...Bodies
synchronized in unity.

A sharp pain brought her back to
reality as she opened her eyes and saw a mysterious man smiling down at her.

She couldn't help but stare at this
stranger who was boring into her skin with his eyes....His eyes held untold promise and had an intensity that unnerved her.

He was smiling and she could feel the heat wash across her. She became aware of her semi undressed nature and felt her body betray her. She closed her eyes again and reveled in
the cool breeze blowing over her face.

He watched her smile and wished he could bring her to life in his
painting .The sea was a perfect canvass to illuminate her perfect features. She wasn't an exotic beauty, but there was something about her...something wild
and free and fiery waiting to be
unleashed.

She would be his muse....He pictured her sprawled in his bed, hair tangled, eyes unabashed, cheeks pink with glow
in naked glory.

His picture of perfection..He would
paint her in her glory.

He leaned over and whispered into her ears and watched the shock spread over face. The transition from shock to indecision to her yield made him smile. He offered her his outstretched hand and she gladly took it.

They walked towards his car in silence with a cloud of heavy anticipation hung over them.

THE END

Monday 18 August 2014

Ways in Which Porn Mislead Women About Sex

I have watched a couple of
pornographic films where perfectly
shaped, beautiful hairless women
which fantastic acrobatic positions that
are sometimes unreasonable are
penetrated by equally toned men with
six packs and perfect body structure.

Anyone who has watched a couple of
porn movie may come up with
particular ideas on how sex should be
and most times expect same acrobatic
moves done by the actors.

These are some of the ways porn
mislead women

- Feeling of imperfections : Most
women would feel a blow on their self
esteem when "perfect women" with
"Perfect bodies" enjoying "perfect sex"
are portrayed by

Independent and Feminine

So many ladies want to be identified as
being independent. The fact that you
can do things on your own, in your own
terms whenever you wish gives you a
sense of power, of satisfaction, of
control, of influence.

It makes you feel good. You can spend
your money the way you want, make
your own decisions, travel at will and
enjoy the good things of life without
feeling weighted down or accountable
to anyone.
The sense of being totally Independent
is

Sunday 17 August 2014

ESSENCE OF A WOMAN

Women are amazingly super beings; they
are powerful, passionate and extremely
magnetic. Born to lead, rule and
orchestrate. They are also resourceful,
active, dynamic and prepared to go any
length to fight for a cause close to their heart.

A woman’s true essence is not measured
by what she looks like; she does not think
less of herself because she is a total
package. She glories in the completeness
of her feminine nature…whether tall or
short, fair or dark, slim or fat; she
appreciates her femininity

Monday 10 March 2014

SURVIVING AT HER MERCY

The fiery eyed man came home in frenzy of fury searching frantically for his punching bag. The target, his frightened wife held her breath as she hid under the bed praying that their four year old son whose lips know no lie will not give her away. But that was not to be, for in matters of seconds the unwavering honesty of their clueless son fished her out from under the bed. As he dragged her by the hair, the piece of cloth she tied fell off leaving her naked, but her oppressor was unmoved and insistent, he began to pound her like local akuebilisi drum. Having endured these routines of horror for years the woman has grown used to it, she lay still like a real sand bag bereft of will to fight back. When he was done he stormed out relieved. Down to Original Mama’s joint he landed, his mouth filled with tales and his enticer’s ears eager as hell to hear. He poured it out like the surge of a mighty flood; branding himself a hero for wrecking his own ship. Original Mama has been in easy virtue business for ages, like a professional spin-master she doused his ego, saturating him with accolades so elusive. He felt relaxed and warmed up to her exhausted bossom. The old hag welcomed him warmly to her rusty murky well of expired waters. Alas! He gasped what else do I live for? So quietly he emptied his whole pocket to her, like a faithful steward he rendered an immaculate account, offering to do even better the next day. Once more the old hag

Saturday 8 March 2014

VOICES AGAIST RAPE AND SEXUAL MOLESTATION

Nneoma ran to welcome his uncle and as usual he bought goodies for her. Biscuits, sweet and her favorite - ice cream. She rushed to show show her mom what Uncle Ade bought for her. She shared her goodies with her smaller siblings and rushed back to Uncle Ade room to watch cartoon. Uncle Ade always put on his Generator when he comes back from office by 5 and Nneoma uses that opportunity to watch her favorite cartoon.

"Uncle Ade, why didnt you put on your generator" ... Nneoma asked with a sad face

"I dont have fuel Nne, will get it at night"..... Uncle Ade answered

"Okay Uncle, let me go and play with my brothers"

"Nne, he called tenderly, come and sit on my laps, i want to show you something"

Nneoma sat on Uncle Ade laps and suddenly felt his uncle hands on her laps

"Do you know you are beautiful girl" he asked... Nneoma nodded in affirmation

"For a beautiful and obedient girl like you, i am gonna buy you a big plate of ice cream tomorrow".. he said

'Really!!! Nneoma beamed excitedly, are you gonna buy ice-cream for me"

"Yes i will..only if you remain the good girl that you are and don't tell your mom anything"... he smiled at her

"Okay" Nneoma whispered "But what don't you want me to tell mummy"

"This" He said as he lowered his lips on Nneoma's

Nneoma struggled with her breath as Uncle Ade held on tightly to her. He kissed her brutally and pushed his hands down to her privates. Nneoma whimpered, but he held her tightly, shutting her lips with his as his finger found her way to her

Thursday 16 January 2014

Most Embarassing Moment - By a blog visitor

I had a boy friend in the university like every other girl had and i was also a virgin. I started dating my boyfriend in my second year and all was going smooth. I had rented my own apartment after spending my first year with my uncle and his wife who was a lecturer in the university. My cousin also lived with my uncle and was reading the same course with me but she was a class ahead of me.

My boyfriend decided to visit me on that fateful day and we both decided that we were going to give sex a try. I closed my door thinking