Ladies.. You have to know who you are and what you want before getting into any relationship.
Find yourself before you find love or love finds you. It is not okay to go into a relationship with the hope that the other half will make you feel complete.
If your wholeness or completeness has to be defined by being with someone then you will keep jumping from Paul to Anthony. The earlier you realise that your happiness doesn't have to be defined by being with someone, the better for you. When you enter into a relationship without finding yourself, you become like a parasite to the other person cause your live will revolve round them and it gets so toxic.
Define yourself.. Who are you?
Apart from being someone's girlfriend/fiancée/wife...Who are you as an individual? What defines you as a person?
It is okay to be a big Part of someone's identity, but if you strip that away, what is left?
If nothing is left after stripping off someone's name from yours then you haven't defined whom you are.
Define yourself..
Don't go into a relationship to feel validated or prove a point..Don't let your life goal become someone who can take care of you and give you a mushy life.
Be your own person, and let your significant other be his or her own person as well. Your relationship will be much healthier and stronger.
Don’t start a new relationship if you aren’t able to define yourself without someone else.
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