More Than Your Body

"The best gift a woman would give a man is her virginity. If you do this, he would love you forever and chances of breaking up or cheating on you will be slim"

When I was in my teenage years, I heard a lot on the quote above but I never believed it then and will not believe it now. I was a free spirit, I always asked "what if" and was reminded of how it is, should be and why it should be left that way.

Still here today..still questioning and dismissing lots of things held by a large percentage of persons

I believe Sex isn't a Gift..
Your hymen isn't a gift to any man
Sex is an Art..An Art of Pleasure

Why should

any lady place a price on her body? Is sex the only thing you can offer?

A cheat will remain one.. Hymen or not
If he takes respect seriously, thats all you may need.

If the only card you hold and believe will work for you is your hymen, then you are in deep shit. It is such a shame that you think a wonderful relationship will happen as a result of 'priced possession'

Its not a one way ticket and will never be.

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It is very sickening when break up occur in a relationship and you hear the lady say
'I gave him my virginity'
'I gave him my body'

When did Sex translate to a gift?

You got wet .He also got wet too
You both moaned, and squirmed and got to a point of no return.
You had sex because you wanted to
It isn't a gift
Stop crying wolf
If you weren't raped then you have no right to complain.

Why go into a relationship with the mindset of offering your body as a burnt sacrifice and as such he has no choice than to respect you.

The earlier we see sex in its true 'Pleasurable' form and not a gift, the less heartbreak we would experience when the relationship goes south.

Bring more to the table!!