There is this lady friend of mine who is always on my neck about when I would get married. She would ask to know who I was with at the moment and how serious the relationship was.
She would advice me not to let him know certain aspect of my life not because it was too early to divulge such information but it has the tendency of driving prospective bobo away.
I have seen ladies shrinking their life achievements, hiding their offspring, reducing their age, living way below standard cause they do not want to offend or scare the man looking their way.
In as much as God has blessed you or you have made some mistakes in your past. You do not have to apologize for it. You dont apologize for having a nice job and good pay cause you worked for it. You don't have to suffer a
man with loads of esteem problem to live.
A man who is really a man will know that your success is his success. A real man will know that your past do not really define you. He would lift his head high because he knows the worth of his woman above rubies. He is not intimidated by her her achievements and goals..rather he would help her highest potential.
You don't have to lie to make a man stay
You do not have to sell yourself cheap
You dont have to diminish or shrink your worth cause you want him to stay
If he is so much into a wifey material ..Seek for a 'husbandly' material too.
Dont jump into the wagon because you have to.
Be true to yourself. A man who loves you, a man deserving will love you for you and you will love him for him.
Wear your extra accessories with pride..if he wont have you with them, he can jump into the lagoon.
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